SATURDAY NIGHTS WITH SPARKS
My
Horrible Hospital Experience
A couple of years
ago, my mom begged me to stay with her friend in the hospital (a government
hospital). This woman was in labor, with no relative around to assist. So here
am I, in a ward filled with so many beds and women at different stages of
labor. Some screaming, others hitting the bed, squeezing their faces...I was
scared!!! (Women, I hail ooo. God bless una)
I kept scanning the
ward, looking at the nurses all huddled up in one corner, gisting away with no
concern, the only time they walked over to your bed was to accompany the doctor
check the dilation. No form of encouragement to these women in labor
whatsoever. In fact, if these pregnant women screamed too loudly, you could see
and feel the disdain in their eyes as they all turned to locate the owner of the
voice.
I was jolted back to
reality with the yelling of the lady I was told to watch. "What are you
doing here?? Shey I told you I want to ease myself and you refused to help me??
(Mind you, I was warned not to give her a bucket before the baby pops into it),
she kept screaming at me and I was just numb.
The nurse walked
over, and said, "all this one you are screaming, you haven't gone anywhere
o, you people are not the first and won’t be the last". She hissed and
walked away, deliberately moving her waist from left to right, so we could
clearly see the vibration abi rotation of her ample ukwu!!
I was terrified. Few
minutes later, she was asked to head to the labor room. For clarity, this first
room is called the "crying room". I named it that, because that was
all the women were doing, before you are moved to the "screaming and
pushing room".
Hmm!! I sat by her
bed in the new room, praying and hoping for a safe delivery. There was no
light; they were using torchlight to deliver babies. All I heard was,
"madam push na!! Stop wasting our time here, plenty hissing and cursing
followed, "you mean you didn't buy pad?? Please I cant use another
person's own for you". Lord!!! All these insults to someone at the height
of excruciating pain?? Thank God, the
lady had a baby boy.
I made up my mind
there and then, not to go to hospitals except it's unavoidable. That experience
was not one I would love to remember. Have you had a horrible hospital? Please
share with us.
About the Author
Here is what Andikan
Inyang also known as 'Sparks' has to say about herself......................
As a Chemical
Engineering graduate, former Immigration Officer and present day banker.....and
most importantly, a foodie, I hide behind my pen.......therein lies my
strength. I hope to pursue a career in writing and explore the world of poetry.
So help me God.
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